How I Work
“Counselling is a collaborative process that allows you to explore your issues in depth and to find new ways of handling them.”
My Counselling Philosophy
I believe that each person has the potential to live an authentic and meaningful life. What I love about counselling is that it gives me the opportunity to participate in each person’s journey of self-discovery. As a therapist, it is a privilege for me to be able to facilitate this journey and to be a witness to each person’s blossoming.
Change can only occur when you feel safe. I believe the therapy relationship is sacred and this is why I practise with great attention to confidentiality, respect and acceptance of who you are and where you may be in your life.
Counselling is a collaborative process that allows you to explore your issues in depth and to find new ways of handling them. You are the expert in your own life and I will always encourage you to make your own decisions based on what you know to be best for you. I maintain strong client-therapist boundaries and am always mindful of my role as your therapist.
Counselling With Individuals
I work from a position of respect where I listen carefully to the issues you bring in order to really understand what it is you are struggling with. Counselling is a series of conversations about you and your life where I ask questions and provide feedback as we explore who you are.
I use the relationship we create as client and therapist to explore and clarify the themes, patterns, dynamics and conflicts you are experiencing so that you can move towards creating balance in your life and feel greater life satisfaction. As your counsellor, I work with you to sharpen your awareness about the choices you are making in your life and how you are ‘being’ in these choices and relationships.
I practice therapy from a holistic approach, which means I take into account the whole of you: the way you think, how you feel, your dreams, values and beliefs, the impact that family issues have on you, both past and present, job stresses, cultural background, migration experience, health issues and anything else which might be significant.
“As your counsellor, I work with you to sharpen your awareness about the choices you are making in your life and how you are ‘being’ in these choices and relationships.”
Testimonials
Lauren suggested that TRTP might be life changing for me so let me put it in context. I appeared functional enough, successful enough, recognised in my chosen profession, and appeared to be socially competent and connected. All of this has been hard won in the context of trauma beginning at […]
When we first came to see Lauren we were having significant communication problems and having major arguments without either of us understanding what was happening to us or why. It got to the point where one of us was threatening to leave and the other agreeing that it might be […]
I’m a ‘work in progress’ – a veil has lifted. I am more grounded at my core. I am more mindful of my surroundings and my eating habits have improved. I notice improvement in concentration and boundary setting, and taking risks in establishing new and old friendships. I feel I […]
I’m so grateful to Lauren for doing the TRTP sessions with me. It was a powerful, transformational and empowering process. Lauren is a very dedicated facilitator who really cares about the process and who she is working with. I feel so relaxed and confident after doing it and feel a […]
I think we really benefited from having a couple of sessions with you which helped provide another perspective that is not always available when there are just two of us. Thanks […]
Thank you so much for all of your help these past few months. You have been such a great support during this difficult time . You have added some much needed structure and objectiveness to a very difficult and delicate situation and we will always be grateful. I doubt I […]
Counselling Approaches
Psychodynamic Therapy
A psychodynamic approach to counselling uses the therapeutic relationship we develop to explore the themes, patterns of interacting, reactions and responses you have to better understand how you operate in your relationships with others. Research has shown that a successful counselling experience is often the result of the positive relationship you have with your therapist. I am committed to developing a safe and trusting therapeutic relationship with you that will enhance your ability to grow and develop.